第1个回答 2013-10-14
‘Darling ’is my daughter’s call. She is near four years old. But she very acts up and ignores us words always.
I frustrated when her disobeyed me. I shouted to her and hit her buttock when she makes me very angrily. I saw her cries every time I felt heavily regret,
Why four years old girls has a hot mood. For example she likes to go to neighbor’s home to eats dinner. She refused back home. She hasn’t good manner at home or when some of friends came my house. She turns down enjoyed her toys with other child. She refused gets up to kindergarten.
But most of time her always is a smart girls. For example she can recite text. She sings songs and dances are lovely. And she repeated what happened at kindergarten. And she gets the first for sport in class，even she is youngest in her class. She can independent performance acts of kung fu and step model. Some of time we proud of her.
Recently I am reading some book for child education. I see more of ideas for communicate with young child.
Unfortunately. I find my daughter has Capable of violence when I want to scold her. She became to wants to hit to me and she heavily cries or lies on the floor. I tried to told she some of ideas but she started hit face and ears or eyes of herself. I felt very disappointed and worried about her behavior.
I remorse…….
Yesterday night at 19:30 I took her go for a walk. She turn down walk by herself and asked me to carried her on my back I refused and then she became to angry and hit to me I didn’t shout and channeled her, but nothing happened. She lies on the road and cry. I asked her if she want to go to sleep. She said yes so need mother help. Back home she still has angry but I ignored. Then I washed for her. And then I said ’mother and teacher are loves smart child as not cry and not lie on the floor’. Then she asked me go sleeping with her. I read text and spoke two stories for her. Her became to happy and talked with me. I kissed her hands and face. We both got a Cheerful mood…….
So I think at usually whether I asking my daughter too strict and I haven’t enough patients and experience. But I have already awakened from now on I’ll be giving my daughter more love and patient. And give up hit and shout to child in future.
I honestly say ‘sorry for my reasonless turns at past time, and sorry again for my daughter’.