父母孩子之间的英语作 文

分析父母与子女产生矛盾的原因,改善关系的建议.100词

It is quite common for parents to beat their children, because they think eating is a good way to make children learn and behave well. One of my neighbors made a very strict demand on his son and scolded him bitterly or smacked(稍带特定味道) him whenever he was lazy or disobedient(违抗命令的). To justify(辩解) what he did, he said,” spare the rod and ruin the child.”
Actually beating is a violent way of treating children. It does more harm and causes more hurt than good to children’s physical and psychological health. However, beating children is common occurrence(出现) in our life. Many children become disable because their parents hit them too hard. Some lost their hearing and some became lame(跛脚的). Some children develop an internal(内在的) hatred(憎恨) for their parents and protest(抗议) by running away from home. Others may become so fearful of their parents that they tremble(发抖) at the sight of their angry parents. A mother, for example, even went so far as to beat her son to death because she was not satisfied with his study. Likewise(同样地), it is not unusual that the child murdered(凶杀) his parents because of the extreme contradiction(矛盾) between them. How can children learn and grow healthily under such circumstance(环境)?
Quite often parents will be torn by pangs(剧痛) of regret(懊悔) and remorse(自责) after they have beaten their children. They feel very sad in the rest of their lives. But it is already too late. How can they bring their handicapped(有生理缺陷的) child back to healthy one? How can they relieve(减轻) pains in their children’s heart so easily? We can say beating hurts both children and parents. It is absolutely a bad way to make children learn and behave well.
Exactly speaking, children are also human beings. They have self-respect and should be respected. Parents should understand and guide them by advising, persuading and reasoning. They may criticize(批评) them without hurting their self-respect, without crushing(支离破碎的) them. But parents should never resort(求助) to the violent, inhumane(残忍的) way of beating!
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第1个回答  2009-09-20
with the improvement of our life .many children become more and more naughty .They don't learn what kind of life their parents have been and interested in comparing with other children .As a result , the malign circle been built .With the age growing ,the desire of children become more bigger than it used to be .So ,the conflict between children and parents start.
so the solution of the conflict is necessary .
firstly,parents should communicate with their children from time to time .secondly ,parents shouldn't put much pressure on children ,they need more time to do the things in which they're interested.thirdly,parents should never touch the diary of their children ,children need private space ,they don't like their parents involved !~
Hereinbefore is the advice about how can improve the relation between children and parents !
第2个回答  2009-09-20
In our daily life,we often quarrel with our parents about some small things. We think that we've got a gap between us. But there were some suggestions for you:
at first,we should understand each other. Our parents are not easy. They work hard and go out early in the morning and back home late in the evening.All they do is for us, for a better life in the future. Sometimes we should think about the things in the viewpiont of our parents'.
moreover, if we put out some unreasonable demands, of course, our parents should stop us from doing. If they don't, that is to say, they didn't care about us and disappointed by us.
第3个回答  2009-09-20
沟通,沟通,这是根源啊!!!!!!!!!!!。
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