曾几何时,成家立业成了很多人奋斗的目标。很多人会觉得,在他们的一生当中,先要有个自己的家庭,然后再有一份奋斗的事业,这样他们一辈子就过得有意义了。
Once upon a time, getting married became the goal of many people. Many people will feel that in their life, they must first have their own family, and then have a struggling career, so that they can live a meaningful life.
于是在以前,很多人到了该结婚的年龄以后,他们就会选择结婚、生子,当他们在有了自己的家庭以后,他们就会着手奋斗自己的事业。
So in the past, when many people reached the age of marriage, they would choose to get married and have children. When they had their own family, they would start their own career.
但是在当前这种条件之下,我们会发现,虽然很多人已经到了适婚适嫁的年龄,虽然他们的父母也是在旁边不断的催促他们结婚,但是对这些年轻人来说,他们总会把婚姻看得很淡。
However, under the current conditions, we will find that although many people have reached the marriageable age, and their parents are constantly urging them to get married, for these young people, they always take marriage lightly.
甚至有的人还会觉得结婚根本就没有任何意义,他们宁愿做一个不婚族,他们觉得一个人过也挺好的。
Some people even think that marriage is meaningless. They prefer to be a non married family. They think it's good to live alone.
结婚只会让他们的负担更重,让他们生活受到羁绊,而不结婚,他们就可以自由自在的过自己想要的生活。
Marriage will only make their burden heavier and fetter their life. Without marriage, they can live the life they want freely.